Do you want to put a stop to the bullshit you get caught up in, but don't know where to start?
🤍 Can you recognize within a split second when the constructs of blame, shame and guilt are tossed your way? How they are intended to manipulate you - subtly or otherwise?
🤍 Can you recognize within a split second when you suffocate your own care and validation by tossing blame, shame and guilt at yourself - subtly or otherwise?
🤍 Can you recognize within a split second when you use blame, shame and guilt to get your own needs met? And when you do, can you love yourself through it anyway - yet still find a way to take responsibility and change the behavior?
🤍 Can you alchemize your judgement - either for yourself or others - into nourishing discernment? Do you know that harnessing the power of our judgement is one of the most dynamic course correctors that exist for ourselves?
If the answer is no, you're not alone, it's not your fault. You're in the right place.
It starts with care for ourselves, our being, our existence in a whole new way.
This is not the kind of self-care your fancy aunt or bro-marketing friend talks about on social media. Not manicures, massages or Lambos.
True care is born with you - stays with you through thick and thin - until death.
You might have heard it whispering to you every now and then. Do you know the voice I'm talking about?
How often do you stop and validate *that* voice. Hear it, receive it - and take action on its counsel?
Maybe you're well-skilled here but know you could do better. Or maybe you're just starting your journey and a lot of these words sound like a bunch of guff.
Either way. This is the beginning. The return to self, the canceling of bullshit.
If the above speaks to you, know this work is worth it. It is simple, but not always easy.
You will learn how to put the oxygen mask on yourself first, to fully show up, so that you can:
▫️ Establish clear boundaries, and discover your clarity in doing so
▫️ Recognize that the work needed is an inside job - not something that gets forced externally on others or external environments
▫️ Know and understand how getting off-track happens, and how to recover quickly when it does
▫️ Get rid of the blindspots that are killing your personal freedom, driving it down or stagnating it
When you know the honest definitions of and embrace your relationship with …
- Care and Validation
- Blame, Shame and Guilt
- Grief
- Judgement and Discernment
- Ownership and Responsibility
… you’ll understand how to build new skills in these specific areas in order to grow in healthy ways aligned with your own values and soul purpose.
When you join me for my four-week course, the Clarity of Boundaries, you’ll be inside a program that creates space for you. A program that allows your own personal sanity to shine and take the reins.
You'll be a part of a course that leads you to your true North, nourishes you and guides you home.
What past, precious clients have to say:

"You're a phenomenal intuitive who helped me give birth to my dreams and helped me grow into my best self. You helped me break through many of my unconscious, self-defeating patterns that have kept me stuck for over 20 years. Your guidance, patience and uncanny intuitive gifts have helped me feel more confident, competent and creative. I don't see myself anymore as a scared procrastinator. Through our work together, I believe in myself. I get shit done, and feel powerful deep inside. Like you know, these things were born from low self-esteem, fear, and past childhood abuse. You helped me transform my life, find myself and even connect to my spirituality again."

"I've let life just happen to me for so many years and even as of recently I've just let it all happen to me. But in a really gentle way, working with you woke up my awareness, kind of like this straw that breaks the camel's back, but in a very profound and gentle way. It let the pressure off that I have to fix myself and instead it's like myself is fixing me."

"My first instinct with this work was almost to run. But instead, I felt safe which is phenomenal because it allowed me the opportunity to learn things about myself that are changing my life. I'm more confident and secure in who I am and in my work. I'm a much better leader now. I don't feel like I'm faking anything. It's very inspiring. It's the nurturing I've always wanted and needed."

Meet Stacy Christopher
I'm a visual communication expert that has worked in the areas of both personal development and business leadership.
I am a life-long student of creativity, healing, communication, connection, kind assertiveness, mature relating, relationships, grief, sovereignty and interdependence.
For the past five years, the past two in particular, I have intensively studied - and studied how to teach - the Clarity of Boundaries with my mentor, Shanti Zimmermann.
Additionally, I am the founder of the Energy Signature Method™, a nutrition expert formerly featured in the New York Times, and an advocate for you to call your deepest desires into reality.
My background working in rock-n-roll allows me to easily see the inner-rockstar in everyone I work with. I know everyone is a creative force and guiding clients to live in their true north is my greatest honor.
On a personal note, I use my colored pencils and markers as a source of meditation on a daily basis (and encourage my clients to do the same), as it's one of our most powerful means of increasing neuroplasticity and brain health.
I am a wife, mom and muse who loves living by the ocean and being visited daily by my two wild scrub jays.